Hi,
A bit of waste using the TSOP1738 (in one "word") for this small distance, but that's your decision.
To decrease sensitivity, reduce incoming light, either by colored filters, (blue will filter most of the IR, green next most, red won't take much), or by a piece of stiff paper laminated with tin foil (to make it opaque to IR) and then making a hole or a slit to reduce the "area" of incoming light hitting the TSOP1738.
Or... Mount both parts in light tight tubes and mount them in an angle so they both meet at the point of interrest.