$50 robot programer header

[lkik]

I'm currently soldering the $50 together.. after starting and then stopping due to a lack of funds like 3 years ago
any way I'm a bit confused on which pin on the programmer header goes to the reset (pin 1 ) on the atmega8

[VegaObscura]

Follow this schematic.

Pin 5.  Do take note of the way these pins are numbered.  It's not exactly the way you might expect them to be ordered.  Make sure you follow all the directions on this page perfectly.