what you want is very easy to do, you simply need 1 transistor, 1 led, and 1 ir detector led style.
connect your power to the collector of the transistor, your led to the emmiter of the transistor and ground to the other free led leg. then depending on the transistor type, place the ir detector accoss either the base/collector or the base/emitter. (dont forget to use a resistor for the led)
I used this years ago for working out how tv remotes actually send data (the led blinks at different speeds depending on the type of remote/ button pressed). Also if you get the right kind of ir detector, you can also use this circuit for detecting leaks from microwave ovens. (nearly all microwaves i tested had a small leak somewhere around the door)